I’m Aerica (Air-Ri-Cuh) – your go-to gal for all things sass, sarcasm, and keeping it real! At 32 years young, I’m navigating the wild world of parenting two incredible kiddos, all while fueled by a combination of coffee, chaos, and a relentless pursuit of success.

I’ve been in the mom business for a whopping 14 years, and let’s be honest, I’m pretty confident I’m doing it all wrong. But hey, who needs a rulebook, right?

You’ll usually find me rocking yoga pants and a sports bra, although I can’t remember the last time I actually did yoga, I despise sports, and I’m pretty sure my boobs don’t even require a bra – but hey, comfort is key.

I’ve toyed with the idea of starting a blog for ages, but my expert-level procrastination skills always got the best of me. Until one day, I picked up a pen (or tapped away on a keyboard) and couldn’t stop writing. Now, sharing my chaotic, but relatable, experiences is kind of my thing.

So, grab some coffee (or wine), settle in, and join me on this  journey through the ups and downs of life. It’s bound to be a rollercoaster of laughs, fails, and occasional triumphs.


Why am I a Mother you want to Follow?

Okay, let’s address the elephant in the room – there’s a shit ton of fantastic mom blogs out there. Chances are, you already have a couple of favorites on your reading list. So, why should you consider adding “Mother I’d Like 2 Follow” to your virtual bookshelf? No pressure, right?

The way I see it, we are all in this thing called motherhood together. I know I can’t be the ONLY mama who goes through challenges and struggles. And I sure hope I’m not the ONLY mama who often finds herself questioning who she is, what she wants out of life, and what the hell she’s doing!? Sound familiar? Well, that’s where this blog comes in.

Sometimes, we all just need a reassuring nod to remind us that we’re not alone in this journey. Knowing that someone else out there has survived or is currently navigating the same choppy waters can be incredibly comforting. At the end of the day, we all crave connection and relatability.

Now, here’s the kicker: While motherhood is undoubtedly the star of our show, it’s not the entire cast. We often get so wrapped up in our roles as moms that we forget about all the other incredible parts of ourselves. But here’s the secret – those supporting roles are just as crucial. When they thrive, so does our lead role as moms.

So, what can you expect from this blog? Well, brace yourself for an unfiltered glimpse into my life motherhood and beyond! From the hilarious to the chaotic and everything in between. Things might get a little crazy, occasionally nonsensical, and I’ll likely be a walking disaster 99% of the time. Oh, and if cursing makes you uneasy, you might want to consider closing this browser now.

But if you’re craving something authentic, raw, and genuine – something that’ll tug at your heartstrings, make you burst into laughter (mostly at my expense, let’s be honest), and perhaps even shed a tear or two – then you’re in the right place. I’m here to share my experiences, lessons, trials, and triumphs, the good, the bad, and the ugly.

You see, I’m at that stage in life where I’m discovering who I truly am and wholeheartedly embracing her, hot mess and all. So, despite the madness, I’d be honored if you’d join me on this journey.

Whether you’re in the same life chapter as me, a step ahead, or even a season behind – I genuinely believe there’s something here for everyone. Regardless of what led you to this blog, I’m grateful your here. My hope is that this little corner of the internet can inspire, motivate, and serve as a gentle reminder that you’re never alone in this crazy ride called life. I’m right here with you, girl!